Dec 18, 2023
Black All-Star Cheerleader Kicked Off Team Over Her Hair
Black All-Star Cheerleader Kicked Off Team Over Her Hair
- 9 minutes
Black child, a little girl
kicked off the team over what?
She couldn't get the moves right.
No, here we go again.
It's about the hair,
we're still doing that, okay?
2023 Is almost over and
we're still doing this.
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In Anne Arundel County, Maryland, black
mother exposing a Maryland cheer coach for
discriminated against her daughter.
All star cheerleader 7-year old
Ryan Brunson, who the mom says was booted
not only her competition, but her team
following a conflict over her hair.
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Brunson was doing it for
the past three years,
was a member of the Maryland Twisters.
Now, when you look,
is she not the epitome of a cheerleader?
I can see her spirit right there,
it's just screaming through.
In a lengthy X thread, SaRaya Woolridge
shared an upsetting encounter she had,
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Ryan had with the Maryland Twisters
cheerleading squad.
In a series of screenshots,
she shared the email she received
outlining the competition uniform.
The girls were given two options for hair,
a high ponytail with curls or
natural curls, and
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a half up/half down ponytail,
also with curls.
This is from the root.
Woolridge shared the reference pictures
featuring natural black curly hair, and
on the other side images of what Ryan's
hair looked like on competition day.
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Woolridge decided to opt for the half
up/half down hairstyle for her daughter,
a style she's done before
in past year seasons, and
Ryan appeared to meet the criteria.
However, Woolridge wrote that the coach,
who she identified as Shelly Ringold,
approached her the morning
of the competition,
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saying her daughter's
hair was out of order.
Ringold allegedly told her Ryan's
hair was considerably longer
than the style in the reference photos and
allegedly grabbed the child's hair
to try to pull it into a ponytail.
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This is just amazing, what a shock!
Woolridge said she believed the issue
wasn't really her daughter's hair, but
the fact she was a black girl.
Confidence Ryan walked out the door
with could have been completely broken.
I don't spend all this money to send
my child to an organization that allows
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anyone, let alone coaches,
to treat them any differently or
make them feel inferior.
Woolridge wrote in a complaint
to the cheer company.
As Newsweek reports, another email
posted by Woolridge showed Terra Rawl,
president of the Maryland Twisters team.
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Telling her that while her daughter was
beautiful, has rather beautiful hair,
she currently has more hair than
what the photos show, adding,
Ryan needs to have her hair in
a high pony for the next event.
I don't need you to tell me my
daughter's hair is beautiful.
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I don't need you to
define what's beautiful,
whose hair is beautiful, and
whose hair is not beautiful.
Miss Madam, cheerleading coach,
head administrator,
we don't need you to do that.
Woolridge was not pleased
with the response,
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she feels this was an act of
discrimination given her daughter's hair,
its shoulder length, and
its natural curly state.
Because her hair is thicker
than the other girl's hair.
You're going to tell her that she
can't wear her hair like that, yeah.
I'm now having to explain to her that in
life you're going to be discriminated
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against based on so
many different factors.
Now, it's something that you can't
control, DC News now with that statement.
Woolridge shared another post on X
which featured an email from the team's
president saying, it's best for both
parties that you no longer continue at
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the Maryland Twisters program, Newsweek.
Yeah, cuz that solves it, doesn't it?
That solves it right there.
In a statement to Newsweek, a spokesman
for the Maryland Twisters said disputed
claims that the child was removed
from the team over her hair.
Saying it's never a good day when a child
is impacted by parents actions, and for
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that, we apologize to the athlete.
My goodness!
In our 26 years, no athlete has ever
been removed for their appearance.
However, we have made the hard decision
to remove families from our program for
other reasons.
This could include poor parent behavior,
violations of our code of conduct,
and more.
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The 7-year-old says she was sad
when she realized she could no
longer be part of the team.
In my mind, it was like,
why would they kick me off the team
because I didn't do anything, she said.
When Woolridge posted the incident
on social media, it went viral.
Woolridge said she received many messages
from other African American mothers and
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cheerleaders who have dealt with
similar situations in the cheer world.
She's dedicated so much time, so much
energy to the sport, and for someone to
make her feel so easily disposable,
it really upset me, DC News now.
Woolridge says she hopes the incident will
allow all teams to reconsider how they
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handle situations like this.
I think that the cheerleader organization
should look as it as a whole about how
they're making children feel about
their hair, their makeup, their weight,
everything.
Like appearance wise,
these kids just want to cheer, she said.
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Now this lit me on fire, senator.
And did you hear what they tried to do?
>> Speaker 2: Yes.
>> Speaker 1: Now this is an out
of control Black Woman who's so
out of control and ignorant,
she jeopardized her.
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We would have loved to keep her, but
the mother was just so out of control.
I've seen out of control parents,
I didn't read any of that here.
And I didn't hear him point to any
specific behavior because she stood up for
her daughter, who has thick,
beautiful luxury.
That's what a crown is, folks.
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That's what a crown is, okay?
And she wanted to keep
it in her natural state.
How dare you, how dare you, okay?
I have a child, we get these restrictions.
Everyone must wear their hair pulled back,
everyone must.
Right there you're wrong, you're wrong.
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And you're ignorant of an entire culture,
of an entire race history, all of it.
It really makes me disgusted.
We have the Crown Act, senator, but
I'm of the mind that you
can't legislate everything.
Because people are gonna figure out how
to dance, and Bob, and weave around it.
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And our kids are gonna get that early
lesson that you're not as good,
you're not as beautiful, you don't belong.
And all mothers who look like me,
all mothers who don't,
have a right to stand up for
their children.
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>> Amen, Amen to that Sharon.
I know we're pressed for time,
this story really broke my heart.
Kudos to that mother for
standing up the way that this company
tried to categorize the mother standing up
for her child to try to deflect from their
bigotry and their Anti-black racism.
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America, wrap your mind around this, and
I need the TYT viewers to be first
to wrap their minds around this.
Imagine being born into this world and
told everything about you is wrong.
The way that, God, your hair comes
naturally out of your damn head is wrong.
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Your nose wrong, your hips wrong,
your lips wrong, your butt wrong.
But let me go and back that thing
up cuz now that about us is being
appropriated, I'm gonna
put that in parking lot.
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We're gonna come back to that
appropriation another day.
>> Yeah.
>> Speaker 2: But this is a damn
shame-
>> Mm-hm.
>> What this company did to this baby,
this 7-year-old baby.
Everybody's hair don't slick back.
Now you got some black
people's hair does slick back?
A lot of black people's
hair does not slick back,
if they wanna keep it
in the natural state.
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It is curly, it is beautiful,
however we wanna damn wear it.
It reminded me of when they would tell
people who wear locks as long as they're
clean and neat.
>> Yeah.
>> What the hell, cuz the assumption is if
you have locks, you're not clean and neat.
When I taught my black history class,
I would tell my students,
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good hair is the hair you take care of.
>> Speaker 1: That's right.
>> Speaker 2: It's not hair
that's more eurocentric.
Black people come all
cuz we are the original.
Once y'all going to look
upMitochondrial Eve.
Okay, all life started on
the continent of Africa.
Donald J Trump,
I weaved him back in here on this.
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He need to take one of my classes.
But mitochondrial DNA comes
from the Mitochondrial Eve.
So all life started and people started
to migrate out and evolution all that.
You all understand this, but
her natural hair is beautiful.
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However black women wanna
wear their hair is beautiful.
How dare they?
And they did this to a 7-year-old baby and
then basically told your mother,
your money ain't no good here.
>> Speaker 1: Yeah.
>> Speaker 2: Cuz you are disposable.
>> Speaker 1: [CROSSTALK]
>> Imagine that, though,
imagine the psychology of constantly
always thinking, we got to relax.
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Now it's turning out that we
know that relaxers cause cancer.
>> Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
>> Speaker 2: So it's one thing that black
women choose to wear their hair that way-
>> Mm-hm, Mm-hm.
>> I got no problem with it.
But what the bottom line
is that we were forced-
>> Yeah.
>> To wear our hair that way-
>> Mm-hm.
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>> Because we live in a world,
in a society that tells us the way
that God made us ain't good enough.
>> Speaker 2: Mm-hm.
>> But meanwhile, back at the ranch,
all these other folks
appropriating our culture.
>> Yeah.
>> Injecting their lips and they butts and
all other kinds of stuff.
But I'm gonna say that for
another time, absolutely [INAUDIBLE].
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>> Speaker 1: Yeah, and wearing locks.
They're wearing locks, okay?
>> And wearing locks.
>> Speaker 1: Right, right,
they're sitting-
>> In the chair for hours.
>> Speaker 2: Yeah, we should do a special
episode on hair, baby, we should.
>> Speaker 1: I'm happy, more and
more of us, I might show up here.
And you gonna see that.
But there's so much hair under here,
it might take up the whole screen.
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>> [LAUGH]
>> You understand?
And that may be a-
>> Speaker 2: Don't cheerlead,
don't cheerlead.
[LAUGH]
>> Speaker 1: You understand, okay?
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