Aug 22, 2025
Here Are The Words Dems Are Going To Try To Stop Using
Left-wing think tank Third Way has made a list of terms that Democrats should avoid using in order to stop losing elections.
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Democrats are still trying to figure out
how they can better connect
with the people of this country.
After losing ground in the last election,
to Trump's simplistic way of speaking
and the questionable intellect
of the manosphere.
But now is not the time to be snobs.
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People already think that the Democrats
are a bunch of nerds with all
their big words and their big ideas.
Can the Dems rebrand now
to be a little bit less dorky?
Well, I mean, that's the problem, though.
It's a rebrand, right?
And so. But it's okay.
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It's okay. It's better than nothing.
So this story has put me
in the uncomfortable position
of having to agree with Third Way.
I think this is the first time
I've ever agreed with them.
They're kind of the corporate wing
of the Democratic Party.
But unfortunately on the language stuff.
Well, again, like the right wing
that I quote unquote agree with,
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I'm not going to their position.
They came to our position.
The left has been antiwar
and anti-corruption from day one.
So when some on the right
come to that position.
Great. Happy to have you here.
Been here for a long time. Right.
Same thing with Third Way.
You guys have seen me say 100 times here?
You got to speak like you're human.
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Stop with all the gobbledygook
and the S.A.T.
Words.
And so now, finally,
the corporate Democrats, ironically,
have come to that position.
So let's tell you the full story,
and then we'll discuss.
Does all of it make sense, or is
there some parts that that that don't.
Okay, so a new memo has been released
telling the Democrats
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which words they should stop using.
If they want people to listen
to anything that they have to say.
The list was put together
by Third Way, as Jake said,
and they are a left center think tank.
So what are the words
that they're advising to stop using?
You can probably already
guess some of them.
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They span six categories, from therapy
speak to explaining away crime and put
in sharp relief a party that authors say
makes Democrats sound like the extreme,
divisive, elitist
and obfuscatory enforcers of wokeness.
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In the document titled
Was It Something I said?
Third way argues that to please
the few we have alienated the many,
especially on culture issues where our
language sounds superior, haughty
and arrogant, according to the memo.
Among the blacklisted terms are privilege,
violence as in environmental violence,
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dialoging triggering other,
microaggression, othering
and microaggression, holding space,
body shaming, subverting norms, systems
of oppression, cultural appropriation,
the Overton Window, existential threat to
the climate and democracy in the economy,
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radical transparency.
Stakeholders. The unhoused.
Food insecurity. Housing insecurity.
Person who immigrated birthing persons,
cisgender deadnaming,
heteronormative patriarchy, LGBTQ
plus Bipoc allyship, incarcerated people,
involuntary confinement.
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So that's the list.
Lanae Erickson, Third Way senior vice
president, emphasized that this effort
is not about censorship.
It's about speaking in a way that doesn't
prioritize jargon or immediately
alienate people who might otherwise
be willing to listen to your message.
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So, Erickson said the Democratic Party
brand is toxic across the country at this
point, with way too many people enough
that there's no way for us to win a
governing majority without changing that.
Part of the problem was that we were using
words that literally no normal people
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used, that we were sticking to messages
that were so overly scripted
that they basically sounded like nothing.
We need to reflect on the ways that our
bubble and our fear of being criticized
by anyone on the left has led to a problem
with both our policy and our language.
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So is anyone already doing this well?
Well, according to Erickson,
she suggested that Democrats should take
their cues from these three former
Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg,
Senator Ruben Gallego of Arizona
and Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear.
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Senator Gallego seems to be on the right
track with this, as he is rumored
to be looking at a 2028 presidential run.
And by the right track, he really does
seem to be on the right leaning track.
That is, as he is shifting further. Right.
And he has done since being elected
as Arizona senator, which sounds like a
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like a familiar path for Arizona senators.
So, we reported on this, show
a few different times about how Democrats
are integrating more curse words
into their everyday speech and how they're
embracing the podcast scene, etc..
So for me, the question is,
does simplifying the words and the message
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the way to actually claw back
Democratic voters that may have been lost?
Because one could argue
that this is not the reason
why Dems lost so much support going into
the last election in the first place.
In fact, Democratic voters were they
were pretty explicit as to the reasons
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why they didn't want to support the
Democrats anymore in the 2024 election.
And I will personally admit
that the jargon is exhausting
and hard to keep up with.
I feel like it's like a bit of a game
for people who are chronically online.
Even though you know they may, I believe
that they have good intentions and I call
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it a game because it's like they want to
see who is the most current or up to date.
And if it's not you, then they just
can't wait to let you know about it.
It's like half the time we're just
arguing with each other over semantics,
and I do my best to keep up with
everything just because genuinely like my
intention, is never to alienate someone or
offend someone or make someone feel bad.
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But I still don't really know
why unhoused is better than homeless
when they both mean the same thing.
Right, everyone?
They're both referring
to the same group of people.
One of those terms has just been
around a little bit longer,
so it's got a little bit of a stink on it.
And I understand to some extent
that that's just how language evolves.
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But I think the ways that these evolutions
are forced upon people
can be off putting because it's no longer
a natural evolution of that language.
But, going back to why the Democrats
suffered in the last election, they're
cowering to Referring to corporations.
They're not standing up to Republicans.
They're blocking progressives from office.
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They're not standing up to Israel.
And the people, the Democratic voters
have told the Democrats all of this,
but now they're pretending like dropping
the jargon is what's going to do it.
So, Michael, what do you make of this?
Look, I think there's some, there's some
wisdom to this, I, you know, going to
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what you were just saying about what's the
difference between unhoused and homeless?
It seems forced, unhoused.
It seems invented.
It doesn't seem organic.
It seems like we have to respect these
people in a way that homeless as a word
doesn't sound like it does, but it
it is no different than saying unhoused.
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It's just a different way of saying it.
I also think that when you are a place
that is writing a memo that says
Democrats sound like the extreme,
divisive, elitist and obfuscatory
obfuscatory enforcers of wokeness,
you're losing people again.
Like they should have made those words
a little less cumbersome, if you ask me.
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All of these words are words
I've heard except for allyship.
So, but I don't, I don't disagree
with this in general, but I think the
bottom line is you need good candidates,
and you have to have candidates
who say what they want to do.
And do, you know, on those issues
that you just mentioned?
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Yes.
Issues that voters
in 2024 said were important?
I don't think hearing food insecurity
is going to really take anybody away
from the Democrats,
but they're trying too hard here.
I think the toxicity goes as far
as the candidates, though, and I think
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good candidates who have good intentions
and want to make changes
in places that are not just about words.
It's a better place to be.
So, look, I don't, I think that the this
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whole idea that, you know, it's changing,
changing words might help,
but when you have a memo doing it,
it's no different, I think, than the memo
than the words themselves
being forced upon people.
So it's a third way gets in its own way.
A lot of the time.
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And I think the well well intentioned
I think this is problematic.
Yeah.
So interesting. I, I agree with you guys.
You guys pick the words
that I was going to talk about as well.
But I actually think this is one of
the better things that Third Way has done.
I noticed the irony that that Michael
mentioned two Obfuscatory.
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- Obfuscatory.
- Obfuscatory.
As you complain about words
and use Obfuscatory.
- You just can't you.
- Can't do that.
It's so blind on top of everything else.
So I agree with you guys.
Look, the candidates matter more
and I don't agree
with their candidate proposals.
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The three that they mentioned
come back to that.
And policy and actions
matter the most by far.
Now, having said that,
I think that they're right at their core
and they're right about a lot
of the words, some of the words I use.
And I don't think it's that big a deal.
So you're not going to agree on every word
like there's nothing wrong
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with the word stakeholder.
No. You know, that's used
in a business context as well.
What is allyship? Have you guys heard?
Yeah.
Yeah, I've heard that a lot because I
hang out in a lot of lip circles, right?
So at like if you don't.
And usually it was one
for like 29 of not knowing them.
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So I feel okay. But but what.
- So what is it.
- Got to do better, Mike?
- I'm sorry.
- Yeah.
So, ally ship has sailed.
- Oh, okay.
- So there you go.
- Context clues.
- Yeah, yeah.
No. So allyship means, how you conduct
yourself as an ally of a community.
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So if you're an ally
of the Muslim community,
you're you would be an ally ship.
But it usually it's used
to put people down.
So. Oh, you don't agree with everything
that the trans community wants online?
That's it.
You're practicing poor allyship, I see.
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Okay, so that's not exactly
how you would say it, but you get it.
Okay.
So anyways, the main reason is for these
words that you shouldn't use these words
is because they're annoying
and patronizing.
Right.
So I was going to focus
on the same thing unhoused.
I drew the line on that.
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And you saw it on the show
yourself years ago.
Okay, I said, this doesn't make any sense.
Guys, I'm not going to say it.
It's the same word as homeless,
and it's patronizing.
Oh, you're not homeless anymore.
You're the unhoused.
How does that help them
actually get them a house?
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Get them? It doesn't.
There's no progress to changing the name.
Like when we were saying Negro in America,
and then we changed it.
There was progress to to a group
of people, and there was a respect shown,
but homeless and unhoused,
you know, changed housing, right?
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I mean, like you were
about to say change, but.
So there has to be like something
that gets better
rather than becomes more careful.
Yeah.
And it's just look, the number one problem
that humanity has overall
is that we it's nearly impossible to see
things from another person's perspective.
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And so most people don't even try.
Most people don't even realize that
other people have a different perspective.
Exactly right.
And so for you,
if you're in academia and you're you use
words like othering all the time.
You find that perfectly normal and you
don't know why people are outraged by it.
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But that's because you don't hang out in,
you know, barbecues in Kansas City
where no one, no one, the entire state,
no one uses othering.
It's like a weirdo word to use.
I can't believe you said academia.
You could have said education.
Yeah, yeah.
Fancy pants here with saying academia.
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Yeah, like another one. Holding space.
Come on, guys.
Come on. What is that?
What is that?
And then, of course, we got
into huge fights over birthing person.
And to this day, a huge percentage
of left wing hosts online say,
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hey, no one says it.
B everyone should say it.
C it's no big deal.
Well, which one is it, guys?
Which one is it?
And the reason that controversy started in
the first place is because AOC was on CNN
and they were talking about abortion.
Abortion,
where we have a huge advantage politically
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and we need to win in the real world.
Otherwise they take away women's rights.
And while we've got the majority
of the American people on our side,
She goes in and says,
birthing persons instead of moms.
Then the whole conversation gets shifted
to this weirdo phrase you use birthing
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persons and then we lose the fight.
What are you doing? Right.
We said that and everybody's like,
no, you're terrible.
Nobody says AOC just said it.
You shouldn't say it.
Well, I'm saying you shouldn't say it.
So we agree.
No, you don't agree. You just say it.
- Don't say it, say it.
- Like what?
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Shut up.
Shut up! You're so annoying.
And here's another one. LGBTQIA+.
I drew the line at Q.
I'm okay with drawing it at T okay, but I.
A+. No, guys, you don't get it.
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Like, because if you're in that community,
you think what?
So what? LGBT.
LGBT, x, y, Z, Q, x2, etc.
R2-d2 and you think that's normal.
But to a person that's trying
to trying to be in allyship with you.
Okay.
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When you say that, you're like,
oh, wait, I don't know.
I don't want to offend.
Did I leave out a letter?
That's a lot of letters.
I don't remember them.
And then they start to panic,
and then they.
- They just run.
- Yeah.
And you're hurting that community
by overthinking the way you refer to them.
- So it has.
- Become.
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- That was actually.
- Yeah.
Go ahead.
I was going to say that was actually.
Something that was mentioned in the memo.
Is that a lot of times, you know,
terms will be determined
for certain groups of people,
but those groups of people, they're like,
we don't even think of ourselves that way.
We don't identify this way.
But I will say about the LGBTQ,
I plus one, I remember once they kept
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adding letters to it, I was like,
okay, you just need a different term.
You know, like there's too many letters,
you know, there's going
to be repeating the whole alphabet.
Just find a better term, something more
encompassing, if that's what you're after.
But all these letters are just
getting a little bit cumbersome.
And especially whenever, you know,
I'm covering a story and you got to go.
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It's just like it's a mouthful, you know?
- So if.
- We're looking to update.
Jargon,
then I think that one can be updated.
That's what I would do.
Everybody everybody's on house
black, white.
Everybody's just the unhoused.
And then we're talking
about one big community.
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Or the over lettered.
The over lettered. Yeah.
Okay.
So by the way,
once you get the Q stands for queer.
That's really all encompassing.
That is very broad category.
So so I think we're good there anyways.
Last thing is you know like okay now
we told you all these annoying things.
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Words you shouldn't use.
And we're recommending that the person
who does it well is Pete Buttigieg.
What are you insane Pete Buttigieg?
Yeah, he goes into right wing spaces.
I respect him for that, I think.
I don't like him overall as a candidate,
but I like he does that.
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We're we're fair show in America.
But Buttigieg is the king of Saturday.
Word salads.
Right.
But I don't think what they're saying here
and I don't know that they're right,
but I think they're saying is
that they've taken themselves off
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of using words on this list.
And yeah, Pete Buttigieg can't help but be
smart, but I don't think that he falls
into the trap of using all of these words.
- And I think.
- I've seen him use it.
- Have you?
- Yeah.
And so he might not be the worst.
But he's also maybe reformed, like maybe
he's, you know, maybe he's saying this is
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not the way we need to speak to people.
I'm guilty of it, but I and I don't know,
but I think that's
what they're saying here, though.
Yeah.
I mean, but he also don't annoy people
with words like accusatory.
Okay.
So it doesn't like it's okay, guys.
Yeah, we know what it means.
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So what? Who are you trying to impress?
Because as a politician,
you have to impress the voters.
And if you're talking down to them
and you seem like you're an elitist prick,
they're not going to be impressed.
They're just going to hate you.
So this is just common sense stuff.
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So. Hey, look, I'll take it.
It's probably the best work
he's ever done.
Oh, no, I don't want them
giving that quote.
Just get better candidates.
That's how you.
Win. Yeah.
Overall. Yes.
Every time you ring the bell below,
an angel gets his wings.
Totally not true.
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